Dear All



Assalam -o-Alaikum , We all may be knowing these but lets recall and implement it (Inshallaah) again.

>kisi ne HUZOOR Akram (s.a.w.) se nasihat Daryaft ki..to aap (s.a.w.) ne farmaya..!
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>* Kisi par aetamaad na karo, jab tak usey ghussey mein na dekh lo
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>jab kisi kaam ka irada karo to uska anjaam soch lo, agar iska anjaam achha ho to kar lo, aur agar anjaam bura ho to us se ruk jao...!
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>(Ahaadees doosron tak pahonchaana Sadqa hai).
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>* "kisi sey naraazgi ka waqt itna taweel na rakho ke wo tumhaare bagair hi jeena seekh jaye". (HAZRAT ALI(R.A)
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>* Namaz ki haalat mein aankhen band karna makrooh hai.
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>Namaz mein jab qayam par ho to nazrein sajde ki jagah rakho jab rukoo karo to paon ke darmiyan dekho jab sajda karo to naak ki samt mein
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>aur jab baeth jao to nazaren jholi mein honi chahiye, Aur jab salam phero to dono kandhon ko dekho
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>* Paedaish Ke Waqt Azan Di Jati Hai. Magar namaz Nahi Padhi Jati. Aur Maut ke Waqt Namaz Padhi Jati Hai,Magar AZAN nahi Di Jati.
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>ZINDAGI AZAN SE NAMAZ TAK KA WAQT HAI
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>* Jo shaks ALLAH se darta hai woh kabhi badla nahi leta..
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>* Hasad karne wala maut se pehle mar jaata hai.
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>* Rishton ki asal khubsurti ek doosray ke baat ko bardasht karna hai. be aib insaan talash mat karo warna akele reh jao gay
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>(Hazrat ali R.A)
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>* ALLAH dey kar bhi aazmata hay aur ley kar bhi,Ghareeb aadmi roti ke liye daudta hai aur Ameer roti hazam karne ke liye.
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>Gunah mein Lazzat hoti hai sukoon nahi.
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>Baat alfaaz ki nahi lehje ki hoti hai, kisi ke barey mein bura mat soncho ho sakta hai wo ALLAH ki nazar me tumse behtar ho.
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>* Koi Gunah Lazzat ke liye mat karna kyonki Lazzat khatam ho jayegi aur Gunah baqi rahega
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>Our KOI NEKI takleef ki wajah sa mat Chhodo kyun ki takleef khatam ho jayegi aur neki baqi rahegi.
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>* Ghoont ALLAH ko bhi pasand hai.
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>Ek gussey ka aur Dusra sabr ka.
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>* Qatrey ALLAH ko bhi pasand hai jihad me khoon ka aur dusra
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>Tanhai mein khauf-e-KHUDA mein nikle huye aansoo ka.
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>* Qadam ALLAH ko bhi pasand hai jo farz namaz ke liye utha or dusra
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>Kisi ki taaziyat ke liye utha.
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>* AZAAN ko gaur se sunne ka fayda ye hai ke MAUT ke waqt zubaan par
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>KALIMA aasaani se JAARI HOTA HAI..!
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>* JAB TUM KOI BAAT BHOOL JAO TO HUZOOR AKRAM S.A.W.W PAR DUROOD PADHO
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>YAAD AAJAAEGI.!
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>* Apne khayalon ki hifazat karo kyon ke yeh tumhare alfaaz ban jate hai.
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>Apne Alfaaz ki hifazat karo kyon ke ye tumhare Amal ban jate hai
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>Apne Amal ki hifazat karo kyon ke yeh tumhare kirdar ban jate hai
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>Aur Apne kirdar ki hifazat karo kyon ke tumhara kirdar tumhari pehchaan
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>ban jata hai
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>Hazrat ALI (R.A)

>* Aap (S.A.W.W) ne irshad farmaya jo koi sadq dil se (pahla kalima) padhe aur
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>is kalime ko apnaye is par dozakh ki aag haram hai..

>Remember me in your Duaa.
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>Allah Hafiz

SALAAM ALAIKUM

Assalamu Alaikum (Var)
Once there was a very handsome, pious, well educated young man, whose parents emphasized for him to get married. They had seen so many marriage proposals, and he had turned them all down. The parents thought it was becoming a little ridiculous or suspected that he may have someone else in mind.


However every time the parents left the girls house, the young man would always say "she's not the one!" The young man only wanted a girl who was religious and practicing. (Which was hard to find)? However one evening his mother arranged for him, to meet a girl, who was religious and practicing.

On that evening, the young man and girl were left to talk and ask each other question (as one would expect). The young man, being a gentleman that, he was allowed, young lady to ask first.
Young girl asked the young man so many questions. She asked about his life, his education, his friends, his family, his habits, his hobbies, his lifestyle, his enjoyment, his time pass, his experiences, his shoe size and his likes and dislikes. Basically everything!

And the young man replied to all of her questions, without tiring and politely with a smile. Young girl took up nearly all of the time, over an hour and felt bad and asked the young man do you have any questions?

Young man said, yes, only have 3 questions...

Young girl thought, wow, only 3 questions okay, go ahead and shoot.
Young man's first question was, (1) who do you love the most in the world, someone who's love nothing would ever overcome? She said, this is an easy question! Answer to your question is my mother.


Young man smiled and asked second question, (2) you said that you read a lot of Qur'an, could you tell me which Surahs you know the meaning of? Hearing this she went red and embarrassed and said I do not know the meaning of any yet, but I am hoping to soon Inshallah I have just been a bit busy.
The third question the young man asked, was (3) I have been approached for my hand in marriage, by girls that are lot prettier than you, why should I marry you? Hearing this, the young girl was outraged, she stormed off to her parents with fury and said I do not want to marry this man he is insulting my beauty and intelligence.

And the young man and his parents were once again, left without an agreement of marriage. This time, the young man's parents were really angry and said what did you do to anger that young girl, the family was so nice and pleasant, and they were religious like you wanted. What did you ask the girl? Tell us!
Young man said, firstly I asked her, and who do you love the most? She said, her mother. The parents said so, what is wrong with that?
Young man said, "no one is Muslim, until he loves Allah (SWT) and his Messenger more than anyone else in the world." If a woman loves Allah (SWT) and Holy Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) more than anyone, she will love me and respect me and stay faithful to me, because of that love and fear for Allah (SWT). And we can share this love, because this love is greater than lust for beauty.

Young man said, and then I asked, you read a lot of Holy Qur'an, can you tell me the meaning of any Surah? And she said no. because I haven't had time yet. So I remembered the saying of Imam Shafi'i, "All humans are dead except those who have knowledge ... And all those who have knowledge are asleep, except those who do good deeds ... And those who do good are deceived, except those who are sincere ... And those who are sincere are always in a state of worry (for others)."

She has lived 20 years on this earth and not found any time, to seek knowledge, why would I marry a woman, who does not know her rights and responsibilities and what will she teach my children, except how to be negligent, because the woman is the Madrasah (school) and the best of teachers. And a woman, who has no time for Allah (SWT), will not have time for her husband.
The third question I asked her was that a lot of girls, prettier than her, had approached me for marriage, why should I choose her? That is why she stormed off, getting angry.

Young man's parents said that is a horrible thing to say, why would you do such a thing; we are going back there to apologize. Young man said I said this on purpose, to test whether she could control her anger.

Holy Prophet Muhammad said "Do not get angry, do not get angry, do not get angry" repeatedly when asked how to become pious, because anger is from Satan.
If a woman cannot control her anger with a stranger she just met, do you think she will be able to control it with her husband?

So, the moral of this story is, a marriage is based on: Knowledge not looks, Practice not preaching, Forgiveness not anger, Spiritual love not lust and compromise!

One should look for a person who (1)Has love for Allah (SWT) and his Messenger(2) Has knowledge of the deen (religion), and can act upon it(3) can control her anger and another important and crucial factor that she be (4)willing to compromise.

And it goes both ways, so women seeking a man, should look for the same things.
May Allah (SWT) make every marriage a success and let us create Love for Allah and his Messenger so that Allah (SWT) can bless us, and create love in our lives.

There is no better structure founded in Islam other than marriage. Holy Prophet Muhammad

Last Update on January 29, 2010 by naziyabanu_k

Assalamu Alaikkum . Insha Allaah All Muslim Peoples Getting the All Post. I will Accept u r Imagination. Iam From India , Now Iam Working Gulf Country.